Although there is no single best way to give female-bodied people sexual pleasure, the female anatomy is consistent enough to provide a number of suggestions.

For the majority of women, the most sexually pleasurable part of their body is called the clitoris, which is a small bundle of nerves that sits slightly above their vaginal opening.^[1] The clitoris, along with the vulva, perineum, vagina, thighs, anus, breasts, and other sites can all be erogenous zones that can be stimulated to provide women with sexual excitement.

Contents 1 Ways women masturbate 2 Masturbation aids 3 Improving your masturbatory skill with a partner 4 Personal responses 5 References

Ways women masturbate Edit

Women masturbate in a number of ways, and not all women prefer to stimulate all of these body parts when they masturbate or when they have their partners masturbate them. According to Scarleteen, some of the ways women masturbate include:^[2]

• massaging the clitoral shaft or hood, labia or mons with hands (either whole hands or with fingers, knuckles or palms with varying kinds of speed, pressure or movement) or an object
• rubbing or rocking the vulva up against objects (like a pillow, the edge of a chair or the edge of the bed)
• inserting fingers or sex toys into the vagina or anus, often paired with clitorial stimulation
• using a vibrator or other toys to stimulate the clitoris, labia, thighs, perineum, rectum or other sites
• using a faucet or showerhead for clitoral stimulation
• sitting on large vibrating objects, like a washing machine
• pressing and unpressing the thighs tightly together

To find the best way to masturbate your female-bodied partner, it's important to learn about their body, as well as their sexual preferences. In addition to asking your partner how they prefer to touch themselves, you can also ask for permission to observe them masturbating. Letting them show you how they pleasure themselves is a very effective way of learning what they like.

Masturbation aids Edit

Many women enjoy the use of sex toys such as vibrators or insertables (toys that can be inserted into their vaginal or anal opening).

When masturbating using penetrative toys, one of the most helpful aids is water-based personal lubricant, also known as a sex lube. For this reason, sex lubes have been called "a girl's best friend."^[3]

Improving your masturbatory skill with a partner Edit

Once you have talked about and/or seen how your partner likes to masturbate, you can then try mimicking their behavior yourself. For example, if your partner masturbates by running a finger over their clitoris in a particular way, ask your partner to relax as you try to run your finger over their clitoris in the same way. Be certain to ask for feedback and suggestions as you do this so that you know you are getting it right.

Over time, and with practice, you will have discovered the best way to masturbate your partner. Bear in mind that different bodies are different, and thus what works for one partner may not work for another or a future partner. Therefore, it's helpful to repeat the learning process, which itself can be quite a lot of fun, with each new partner, as well as with familiar partners every so often.

Personal responses Edit

I particularly like to finger. If it's easy enough to find, you can start by rubbing your clitoris and make your way down, rubbing the bundle under the opening. But I get the most success with finding my clitoris and putting a vibrating toothbrush on it. It feels great once you get the right position! If you put the edge of the brush on your clitoris, you tend to twitch a lot, making it hard to keep it on the clitoris. But put it flat on your clitoris, maybe move it around a little, and I always get an orgasm! —Anonymous user from 71.126.60.186

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References Edit

1. ↑ Anatomy: Pink Parts - Female Sexual Anatomy
2. ↑ Advice: How Do You Masturbate?
3. ↑ Lubricant (not diamonds) is a girl's best friend.